Back in my office, it’s so good to be back!
I am sitting here pleasantly amused. The expression on the face of my boss is priceless. A farmer wearing a Moroccan hooded cloak has just come in to talk about his loan and my boss has the best smirk painted across his face. It says, “Oh no I’m going to have to explain this again.” I’ve come to respect this man more and more. He may sometimes spend a lot of time lounging on the mat, but everyone does here so I can’t hold that against him. He reminds me of a lion, proud and reserved but always ready to pounce.
I’m finally back in Ronkh and it feels great! Ronkh hasn’t changed much. It still is way out here. It still looks like it fell from the sky in the middle of a desert. But it feels like home and I’ve been looking forward to seeing these people for quite a while now.
A few things have changed. Papa, (cutest child on the planet,) now can say more than Papa. The wind has gotten worse here, which means that sand is flying all over the place. When I returned to my room a nice sand layer coated the floor. Even my bathroom which has 2 small and very high windows had sand everywhere. Thankfully Megan’s host brother in Ross Besio, who is incredibly helpful, gave me his head wrap. I am now sporting a black wrap, which I wrap around my head to protect my face from the sand. Whoever invented these wraps was genius, they work great. It’s nice to make it to work without a lot of sand in my throat.
It’s nice to see everyone here. I’ve been away for just over 2 weeks, which was much too long. I had to come to Dakar to meet with the Peace Corps doctors about my foot. Had different reviews on it from both PC doctors and received different advice from the Peace Corps doctor as I did from a wonderful couple that I know from Bahai pilgrimage in Haifa, who happen to live here in Dakar. Regardless I had 3 sessions of physical therapy and now have a platform with a ball in the middle of it so I can exercise my ankles. I really hope that this will do the trip. I had 3 months of physical therapy in the US before coming here though so don’t think that 3 sessions will be a silver bullet but am optimistic and hope that those sessions and the rest I had in Dakar prepared my ankles.
It seems like most people had a good Tabaski. My stomach was not doing too hot around the time when Tabaski rolled around. I would have had to have been in a car for 8 hours to get from Dakar to Rosso, a town where there may have been a car going to my village, or there may not have been. In all likelihood the trip would take a bit longer with stops so 10 hours maybe be more likely. This would be fine if…by necessity, I didn’t need to be near a toilet. So I couldn’t make it back to my village but I still had a very nice Tabaski, and thankfully after 2 weeks of not being able to really absorb anything my stomach is back in action! I now have lost over 20 pounds since I’ve been here. Hopefully now that I can take in food I will gain some of it back.
Tabaski is a pretty big deal here. People spent so much money on Tabaski, literally sometimes a third of their yearly income. Everyone buys new clothes and all of the men are supposed to have a sheep to kill. They all work together, holding it down and then slitting its throat. I watched this with mixed feelings. It was obviously horrible to see an animal killed but then I think that it’s really not and that’s just my American cultural perspective rearing its head. We are so detached from death in our everyday lives that it’s almost always a tragic thing, whereas here people die more often and animals are killed by adults and even children, who turn out fine. How many American children can say that they’ve killed anything other than a bug? We also may not see the deaths but we pay for the deaths of many more animals. If anything I tried to remember that it’s more natural to actually kill the animal than to pay for it to be killed somewhere far away.
The sheep was killed and then hung from a tree by its neck. It was skinned and then taken apart in pieces until all that was left was its head which was then taken (I was told for a stew.) We then ate this sheep throughout the day. For lunch we ate various pieces of meat. The pile was topped with the sheep’s testicles which I didn’t think I’d ever try but I figured why not…it’s a very soft tender meat and isn’t half bad.
My Tabaski hosts were great, they made sure I was VERY comfortable and welcome. I was able to go to the Mosque in the morning to pray with all of the men. It struck me as more of a traditional experience than a religious one. Part of that is related to the conversations that went on during the prayer. We went through the motions and maybe we would be bowed down on the mat and some guy would turn and start talking to his neighbor. Considering the prayer was in a language that people don’t understand I can hardly blame people. Regardless of why people were there it was a beautiful event. Everyone wore elegant boo-boos and after the prayer shook hands and said that they all forgave each other, a nice way to start off a day.